to be or not to be kept?

My best friend is 10 years my senior and we get along just fine. the first time i ever got hit on i was 12 and he was 18. he told me later he thought i too was 18.

Since moving to chocolate city i have gone on several dates all with me who have been atleast 8 years my senior. last night i had a reuniting with one such man. we had not seen each other in almost a year and during that lapse he'd gone off and married the woman he was living with while we dated! :) last night, we met with a group of his friends. he was working the dance floor, dancing with every willing female. for the record he can move (but not as good as bighead!) all his friends at some point of the night sparked convo with me. his friend's cousin, who was also in the group but not associated with my married friend, and i ended up hitting it off. he offered to take me home, i accepted. btw: dude who offered teh ride is 16 years my senior! my married friend got mad at me for leaving with someone else. Was his irritation justified? should i have some how, some way entertained him when the night was over?

the analysis:
he's married
he is spending the night at his college freind's house
he is carpooing with 2 others (his friend and another mutual friend)
i cut romantic ties off the first time as sooon as i found out his living situation
i will never again be "the other woman"
my apartment is a mess (the dryer in the building was not working, figure it out!)

conclusion:
Negro was not justified in his anger. based on past interactions he knows how sacred i hold marriage. he should not have called me to hang out with the expectation that he would "get some" anything. finally, it forces me to think of what kind of a woman he thinks i am. one that would fornicate with a married man? do i have no morals or self respect? maybe he thought our connection was that serious. not when you're married!

Moral:
older dudes & younger women: maybe we just complement each other. they're looking for youth and fun, and i'm looking for $ and stablitiy! being kept never hurt no one!